innocent as charged.

girls messing around= not cool. guys messing around= high five. ummmm....still not fair!

i know this is an issue that girls have been dealing with practically forever, but i have never had it shoved so deeply in my face as i did last night. the stoner and i reunited after 2 weeks (he's still phoneless, but suddenly persistent). unfortunately, after "enjoying each other's company," he decides to bring up a gossipy little rumor he heard about me, which i thought we had agreed was a misunderstanding.
here's the conversation:

the stoner: glad you came over. was i your plan c again?
me: i thought we were over that.
the stoner: it's still there. it's a little weird when you are sitting around with your buddies, singing a girls praises and they all get quiet.
me: i was KIDDING about having different options to go home with that night.
the stoner: but that's weird, you are a girl. you don't joke about those things.
me: well, i do.
the stoner: so, you want people thinking you get around?
me: no, i want people to get my sarcasm.

apparently if i were a dude, joking about such things would be funny. instead, i am misunderstood and probably looked down upon by all of the stoners friends, some of which i KNOW get around.

so...is this guy so stuck on this because HE is seeing other people and wants me to feel bad so he doesn't, or because he actually likes me as more than a midnight makeout????

and, yes, maybe i am seeing other people, but im not making out with them. so, innocent as charged.